Over the years I’ve kept a journal of Ideas of conduct passed down to me from my Great-Grandparents, Grandparents, Parents, and personal insight which I want to pass on to the younger generations.

You may be asking how did I come up with these ideas? The answer is Trial and Error. As we go through life some people will call it failures, They tend to perceive the outcome negatively. However, I want to Emphasize that such experiences can serve as Valuable Learning Opportunities. What you need to remember is it's a learning experience, if you don't try how do you know what is the right way and determine the most effective path forward?

Treat a Person with Respect

I think this is the most important advice I can give you. If you treat a person with respect and  common courtesy they will reciprocate.

I started out with a long and lengthy explanation about respect from classes on psychology I had in college, but I cut out all the Bull****.

At Work, on the street, at a restaurant, standing in a line, or on the phone, disregarding superficial differences regardless of their background, race or sexual orientation, treat this person as a friend you haven't seen in years and with a happy face say something even if it's dumb. Talk to this person, not at.  This will be the hardest part, listen to learn from this person not to argue.

In college, I took up Aeronautical Engineering.

I took up space. “Dumb Joke”

Yes Dear

The key to a good relationship is Yes Dear and a short memory (forget the past). When you fight, My Mother, Grandmother, and Great Grandmother told me: "Don't ever say anything that you can't take back!" Use the words: You're being a butt, Young Lady, or Young Man in the place of four-letter words or the B & C word. Make rules about fighting.

Never go into your partner's purse, wallet or phone, always ask permission. Trust is the key to any relationship!